tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post2239925585527211079..comments2023-10-31T04:32:36.587-04:00Comments on Two Exes and Several Zeros: The Weather Report: Part 1KSThttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02594832284191260116noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-91965306950651947492009-07-30T22:59:38.144-04:002009-07-30T22:59:38.144-04:00^ Thanks for stopping by Invisible Woman. I think ...^ Thanks for stopping by Invisible Woman. I think it is possible to have no hard feelings, and be finished with a friendship.<br /><br />@ Bougie: I feel you on having a low tolerance for BS. Currently, I'm probably at a -12 on that scale.KSThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02594832284191260116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-70536139004386337732009-07-29T11:27:02.378-04:002009-07-29T11:27:02.378-04:00I had a friend like that...the only times she was ...I had a friend like that...the only times she was really open and responsive was when I was having trouble, othefrwise she'd be snippy and critical. I finally realized that it was completely her thing and her issue. I wish her well, as she is not a bad person, but we are no longer in contact, and I don't really miss her.<br /><br />I agree with Max, btwInvisible Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08299734445263175345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-24320678533916303342009-07-29T02:50:38.015-04:002009-07-29T02:50:38.015-04:00I like closure - but I rarely offer it to those I ...I like closure - but I rarely offer it to those I choose to defriend. I know it's probably messed up, but I have a low tolerance for bull or questionable associates. If someone shows their azz to me then I usually cut them off cold.Bougie Applebumhttp://www.bougieapplebum.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-31633936572761631512009-07-28T21:33:49.802-04:002009-07-28T21:33:49.802-04:00^ Very astute Max. And yes, I'm being serious....^ Very astute Max. And yes, I'm being serious.KSThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02594832284191260116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-12217806414200088632009-07-28T12:07:43.982-04:002009-07-28T12:07:43.982-04:00I believe that sometimes people run to your aid so...I believe that sometimes people run to your aid so that they might feel better about themselves. Their situation doesn't look so dire as long as yours is all jacked up. But then when you find the strength to pull yourself up and out, they can no longer compare themselves to you or feel better because they are doing so much better than you.<br /><br />In a lifetime we meet a lot of people. Some of them will play a significant roll in our lives while others don't play as significant a roll as they would like to believe they play.Max Reddickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09360630810931410487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-20635041414524966662009-07-25T17:05:14.257-04:002009-07-25T17:05:14.257-04:00@Citizen Ojo: I agree with you, but check the last...@Citizen Ojo: I agree with you, but check the last line of my comment to Curious. There is a difference when dealing with SWF's. I clarify this next post.<br /><br />@Curious: Exactly.KSThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02594832284191260116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-66078848205879000892009-07-25T09:34:56.927-04:002009-07-25T09:34:56.927-04:00I guess what I'm trying to say is that many of...I guess what I'm trying to say is that many of of us try to find a roll to play in the lives of certain individuals, whether it's parent, friend, sounding board, savior or something else. Once we have found that niche that we are comfortable with, it's hard then to find another roll to play that will give us the same level or reason for being there. That's why 80% of the time a mother will always be your mother and maybe your friend but never your equal.Curioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03784893681266233567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-67762254611854613392009-07-24T19:32:54.434-04:002009-07-24T19:32:54.434-04:00I never thought about Stormy Weather Friends. I a...I never thought about Stormy Weather Friends. I always thought of people like that as "Ride of Die" Friends. Sometimes people just fall out with one another. Nothing abnormal but just a thing. I always think you should tell someone if you are ending it with them. I personally like closure but that's me.Citizen Ojohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07001825524756033450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-26900499441578987232009-07-24T16:39:10.151-04:002009-07-24T16:39:10.151-04:00^ I loved this comment, and I think there is a lot...^ I loved this comment, and I think there is a lot of truth to what you wrote. I guess I don't think these type of friends should "slink away" at all. What's wrong with just remaining a friend. Why is that so hard?<br /><br />Hint: Misery loves...KSThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02594832284191260116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6713119478510920016.post-78300571923534449712009-07-24T09:00:29.544-04:002009-07-24T09:00:29.544-04:00No answers here for you accept that if I was St. G...No answers here for you accept that if I was St. George and I killed the dragon for you so that you could live in peace and without fear, then what would I do next? Go back to farming? I don't think that it would have the same kind of thrill. I exist only because there was a crisis and or emergency that needed to be resolved. <br /><br />Stormy weather friends are probably like that except when everything is done, they can't just slink away because the story is over. Because until they are dead, their story is never over.Curioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03784893681266233567noreply@blogger.com